September 14, 2008

A New Teen Speak Dictionary for Parents - Will it Work?

I just read this article from BBC News in the UK about a new online dictionary for parents of teenagers. It's defines some "typical" teen words for parents so they can understand what they're teenagers are saying. It's a good idea in theory, but I wonder if teens change up their slang too quickly for a "dictionary" (what they call the "jargon buster") like this...all the teens I know move so fast when it comes to what's cool and what's not. I wonder if the dictionary will be able to keep up.

September 05, 2008

Q&A: Sarah Burningham talks with YA Author Diana Rodriguez Wallach

YA author Diana Rodriguez Wallach's new book Amor and Summer Secrets is just hitting bookshelves. I got to talk with Diana about the book, what it's like to be 16 in Puerto Rico, and how she became a writer (it involves a psychic!).

Amor

Q: You say on your website, that a medium predicted you were going to write YA books. Seriously? You've got to give us the back story!
A: Well, you asked. ☺ It’s a long story, but here goes:
After college, I worked for a couple of years as a reporter for trade magazines, but despite my employment, I always had a nagging feeling in the back of my head that there was “something else” I should be doing. Only I didn’t know what.

One fall, my now-husband and I decided to take a vacation around New England. We stopped in Salem, Mass. to see the witches’ houses, and while there I decided to visit a psychic. I had never been to one before, but when in Rome, right?

So I sat down and the psychic immediately said, “You’re a writer.” And I was; I was a reporter. I told her this, and she asked what I wrote about. Intentionally trying to be cryptic (I mean, she is a psychic, shouldn’t she already know?), I told her that I wrote about “business.” She swiftly rebuffed that and said, “No. I see you writing books, little books, like children’s books.”

I had never considered writing a book before. And, truthfully, after I left the psychic’s studio, I didn’t think about it again for several years. I continued working as a reporter.

Then, 9/11 happened. I lived five blocks from ground zero. And I used that time to reflect on what I wanted from life. I decided to stick out my two-year lease in Lower Manhattan, and then in 2003 I moved back to my native Philadelphia and took a job at nonprofit. I finally left journalism and starting working in an industry that I found more rewarding.

Then, I had a dream. Seriously. I dreamt that I was a young adult author, and I dreamt the entire concept for a series of books based on my experiences in middle school. When I mentioned this to my husband, he reminded me of the psychic’s prediction years earlier, and I took it as a sign. What can I say? I’m Catholic. So I sat down to write my first novel.

That book landed me my agent, though it has yet to still. But I stuck with this career path and went on to write Amor and Summer Secrets, which will now be published by Kensington in September 2008. So, my entire writing career really all traces back to a psychic and a dream.

Q: You're half Polish, half Puerto Rican--how much of main character Mariana is based on you?
A: While I am not Mariana, I did give her my ethnic background. Come on, how many Polish Puerto Ricans do you know?

But seriously, I wanted to write a multi-cultural novel from the perspective of a girl who didn’t quite identify with either of her parents’ cultures. I feel this is a very American story. It doesn’t matter whether you’re half Polish and half Puerto Rican, or half Thai and half Jamaican, I think a lot people (and a lot of teens) can relate being torn between two very different ethnic groups. And often I find that people, including myself, connect more to the culture that they “physically” resemble.

For much of my life, I had a hard time connecting to my Puerto Rican roots because I didn’t fit the stereotype. I have red hair and freckles, and I didn’t learn Spanish in my home. But as I grew older, I chose to seek out those connections. I studied Spanish in school, took a semester abroad in Madrid, visited my family in Utuado, and achieved an overall better sense of self.

So while Mariana doesn’t share many of my personality traits, I did purposely send her on a journey that it took me much longer to take.

And on a superficial level, Mariana lives in a much nicer house than the one I grew up in. ;) But we are both from Philly.

Q: While in Puerto Rico, Mariana celebrates her Quinceanera. For those of us who don't know, what exactly is a Quinceanera?
A: A Quinceanera is essentially a “Sweet 15.” It’s very similar to the American Sweet 16, only Quinceaneras are culturally Latina and often religious. Many Quinceaneras include a Catholic church ceremony, though that’s becoming less popular in recent years. But it always includes a huge party, and it serves as a “coming of age” celebration on a girl’s 15th birthday.

Q: In honor of Mariana, tell us about your own sweet 16. Did you celebrate a Quinceanera?
A: Truthfully, I didn’t celebrate either.  As I mentioned, I wasn’t raised to feel culturally Puerto Rican any more than I was raised to feel culturally Polish. I embraced both sides equally with my plantains and perogies on the same plate.

And because the suburb I grew up in had a very small Latino population—and by that I mean, we were the only family with a Hispanic last name in our entire zip code—I didn’t really know much about Quinceaneras. I did, however, attend one for a distant cousin who lived in the Bronx. I think I was eight, and I remember being in awe of the girl in the white dress, but I didn’t truly comprehend to celebration enough to ask to have one when I turned 15.

As for a Sweet 16, birthdays just weren’t very splashy in my neighborhood. I think I had a few friends over, but it wasn’t anything that I would call a “Sweet 16.” Trust me, blowing out candles in my parent’s kitchen would not have been worthy of MTV. But I don’t feel like I missed out on anything. This was the norm where I was raised.

Q: Amor and Summer Secrets is the first in a trilogy and the other books (Amigas and School Scandals, and Adios to All the Drama) are coming out soon! Did you always plan to write a trilogy or did the first book work it's way into three?
A: Actually, when I wrote Amor and Summer Secrets, I expected it to be a stand-alone book. I hadn’t planned on a trilogy, nor did my publisher when I first submitted it.

Amor was originally written under the title “Ay, Americana.” In it, Lilly was 17 and the events of her birthday party occurred at a nightclub. But during the submission process, my agent received a request from an editor at Kensington who was looking for a Latina book featuring a Quinceanera.

So I looked at “Ay, Americana” and thought about whether it could possibly fit this objective. Ultimately, it couldn’t hurt to try, so I spent two weeks revising the manuscript and was shocked when I loved the book so much more afterward. It added an element that I didn’t know was missing. We submitted the manuscript, re-titled as “First Class Chica,” to Kensington and it sold within days. Then, to my great surprise, Kensington said that they loved it so much they wanted to publish a three-book series to expand on the character.

Whenever I write a book, I always think about would happen next to my characters—much the same way you wonder about old friends. So when the offer came in, I already had a mental outline of what the future held for Mariana and Lilly, and I was thrilled to get the opportunity to write it.

Q: Where is your favorite place to write?
A: I live in Philadelphia, so my favorite spots to write are seasonal. When it warm, I often write on my patio and enjoy the weather. When it’s cold, I usually write at my desk overlooking the snowy patio. I also often go to local coffee shops in the winter to mix it up a bit. Writing at home can give you cabin fever.

July 28, 2008

Importance of Friendship

Summer can do two things to a friendship - make it stronger (because you have more time to see each other than during the busy school year) OR make it weaker (because you only see each other during the school year). So, in honor of keeping in touch with all your friends (even the ones you only talk to by text) I have to show you this. It's cheesy, I know, but I loved it.

July 23, 2008

Sarah Burningham for President???

July 10, 2008

More How to Raise Your Parents buzz

Uhmm, can you expect anything else from me?!

Seattle Public Library

Poughkeepsie Journal

July 04, 2008

Holiday weeked - Hooray!

I love the fourth of July. Not only is it my friend Lauren's birthday (a good reason to celebrate in and of itself) but we get a day off work and there are picnics, barbecues, fireworks, sprinklers, corn on the cob (a MUST), and all the other fun stuff that comes along with typical americana. So I'm headed out on our vespa to a little park in harlem for a picnic and am them going to watch the fireworks on the east river. It's one of the best shows I've ever seen and it all starts with one man. Here's what he says goes into his "bang-up" job.

July 03, 2008

What you do OR what you say?

You know that saying "actions speak louder than words?" Well, it's true for parents, too. I mean how many times has your mom said not to talk on your cell phone while driving but she chats away on the freeway? If parents expect teens to really do what they say they're going to (or not), then they also need to. Not only will it help your communication (which one survey says is not so good) it's just the right thing to do.

June 30, 2008

Are you a Job Snob?

A lot of the teenagers I know have had a really hard time finding jobs, and some of those who have had to promise to stay into the school year (not just a summer gig). I'm not the only one who's finding this. The Los Angeles Times had a column about it - from a mom who's daughter (or any of her friends) can't find a job. But this mom says the lack of job opportunities is because her daughter is a snob.

"My daughter is willing to bag groceries, but only at Whole Foods or Trader Joe's. She wouldn't mind selling clothes, but root around in a dusty storeroom for size 7 loafers? Never. In my neighborhood, I'm surrounded by kids who have grown up considering summertime leisure a birthright, and now find their parents unwilling or unable to fuel their cars or fund their lattes."

Now, hold on a minute. I know what it's like to have a particular job in mind. My first summer job was at a bookstore - my dream job! - but it took my a month of looking before they hired me. And I had looked everywhere, not just places I would like to work, but places I thought would hire me. Even the snow shack in the grocery store parking lot. (Apparently, I wasn't qualified to make snow cones. I'm probably still not. I'm way too big of a klutz.)

But do you think teenagers are really being snobs? Or is it really just that hard to get a job these days? I tend to think our economic state is making it nearly impossible for even the most well-meaning, willing-to-do-anything teen to get some summer work. What do you think?

Oh, and if you're looking for some more unconventional ways to fund your summer fun, check out this old post of mine on thrifty teens.

June 27, 2008

School Library Journal - the review

School Library Journal is this magazine that goes out to, you guessed it, school librarians! It's basically a magazine of book reviews, recommending what they should buy. So if you get a good review, it's definitely a good thing.

They just reviewed HOW TO RAISE YOUR PARENTS in their July issue and here's what they had to say:

For Grades 7-11

This illustrated guide gives parents the upper hand, even if pretends otherwise. In turning the tables, Burningham gets readers to see things from an adult's perspective and offers advice on how to negotiate so that the two generations can happily coexist as a family. More conventional than its quirky title and tone suggest, the book provides rational advice such as avoiding lying and accepting the con-sequences when caught red-handed. Chapters also cover topics such as jobs, getting a driver's license, and cyber-life. The fun, magazine look of the book, which categorizes parents into five types (and provides questions for readers to determine which type they have) and decodes "parentspeak," will no doubt connect with teens. Burningham is clearly an adult talking ("Parents don't like ultimatums...," "If you really want your parents to hear you, you have to treat them like real people"), but she's a very hip adult who makes sense, and teens just might want to listen to her. -Sarah O'Holla, Village Community School, New York City

June 26, 2008

Body Piercing Drama

This New York Times blog post might as well have been written for me to talk about. I cover piercing in my book and basically say that if you are going to get something pierced (no matter what - or where - it is) you MUST have a professional do it.

One girl I talked to pierced her own belly button and it became this nasty gnarly scar. I'm actually a little scared of needles (due to me very small veins. So small that they have to use a new-natal needle whenever they draw blood at the doctor's) so I'm not one who is going to go out and starting piercing myself. Not to mention, jewelry is expensive! I have a hard time keeping cute earrings in my two holes. But my friend Melissa has the cutest nose piercing. It's all about personal style. Just keep it clean, kids! (Literally. When you pierce something, rubbing alcohol should be your new best friend.)