Books

September 05, 2008

Q&A: Sarah Burningham talks with YA Author Diana Rodriguez Wallach

YA author Diana Rodriguez Wallach's new book Amor and Summer Secrets is just hitting bookshelves. I got to talk with Diana about the book, what it's like to be 16 in Puerto Rico, and how she became a writer (it involves a psychic!).

Amor

Q: You say on your website, that a medium predicted you were going to write YA books. Seriously? You've got to give us the back story!
A: Well, you asked. ☺ It’s a long story, but here goes:
After college, I worked for a couple of years as a reporter for trade magazines, but despite my employment, I always had a nagging feeling in the back of my head that there was “something else” I should be doing. Only I didn’t know what.

One fall, my now-husband and I decided to take a vacation around New England. We stopped in Salem, Mass. to see the witches’ houses, and while there I decided to visit a psychic. I had never been to one before, but when in Rome, right?

So I sat down and the psychic immediately said, “You’re a writer.” And I was; I was a reporter. I told her this, and she asked what I wrote about. Intentionally trying to be cryptic (I mean, she is a psychic, shouldn’t she already know?), I told her that I wrote about “business.” She swiftly rebuffed that and said, “No. I see you writing books, little books, like children’s books.”

I had never considered writing a book before. And, truthfully, after I left the psychic’s studio, I didn’t think about it again for several years. I continued working as a reporter.

Then, 9/11 happened. I lived five blocks from ground zero. And I used that time to reflect on what I wanted from life. I decided to stick out my two-year lease in Lower Manhattan, and then in 2003 I moved back to my native Philadelphia and took a job at nonprofit. I finally left journalism and starting working in an industry that I found more rewarding.

Then, I had a dream. Seriously. I dreamt that I was a young adult author, and I dreamt the entire concept for a series of books based on my experiences in middle school. When I mentioned this to my husband, he reminded me of the psychic’s prediction years earlier, and I took it as a sign. What can I say? I’m Catholic. So I sat down to write my first novel.

That book landed me my agent, though it has yet to still. But I stuck with this career path and went on to write Amor and Summer Secrets, which will now be published by Kensington in September 2008. So, my entire writing career really all traces back to a psychic and a dream.

Q: You're half Polish, half Puerto Rican--how much of main character Mariana is based on you?
A: While I am not Mariana, I did give her my ethnic background. Come on, how many Polish Puerto Ricans do you know?

But seriously, I wanted to write a multi-cultural novel from the perspective of a girl who didn’t quite identify with either of her parents’ cultures. I feel this is a very American story. It doesn’t matter whether you’re half Polish and half Puerto Rican, or half Thai and half Jamaican, I think a lot people (and a lot of teens) can relate being torn between two very different ethnic groups. And often I find that people, including myself, connect more to the culture that they “physically” resemble.

For much of my life, I had a hard time connecting to my Puerto Rican roots because I didn’t fit the stereotype. I have red hair and freckles, and I didn’t learn Spanish in my home. But as I grew older, I chose to seek out those connections. I studied Spanish in school, took a semester abroad in Madrid, visited my family in Utuado, and achieved an overall better sense of self.

So while Mariana doesn’t share many of my personality traits, I did purposely send her on a journey that it took me much longer to take.

And on a superficial level, Mariana lives in a much nicer house than the one I grew up in. ;) But we are both from Philly.

Q: While in Puerto Rico, Mariana celebrates her Quinceanera. For those of us who don't know, what exactly is a Quinceanera?
A: A Quinceanera is essentially a “Sweet 15.” It’s very similar to the American Sweet 16, only Quinceaneras are culturally Latina and often religious. Many Quinceaneras include a Catholic church ceremony, though that’s becoming less popular in recent years. But it always includes a huge party, and it serves as a “coming of age” celebration on a girl’s 15th birthday.

Q: In honor of Mariana, tell us about your own sweet 16. Did you celebrate a Quinceanera?
A: Truthfully, I didn’t celebrate either.  As I mentioned, I wasn’t raised to feel culturally Puerto Rican any more than I was raised to feel culturally Polish. I embraced both sides equally with my plantains and perogies on the same plate.

And because the suburb I grew up in had a very small Latino population—and by that I mean, we were the only family with a Hispanic last name in our entire zip code—I didn’t really know much about Quinceaneras. I did, however, attend one for a distant cousin who lived in the Bronx. I think I was eight, and I remember being in awe of the girl in the white dress, but I didn’t truly comprehend to celebration enough to ask to have one when I turned 15.

As for a Sweet 16, birthdays just weren’t very splashy in my neighborhood. I think I had a few friends over, but it wasn’t anything that I would call a “Sweet 16.” Trust me, blowing out candles in my parent’s kitchen would not have been worthy of MTV. But I don’t feel like I missed out on anything. This was the norm where I was raised.

Q: Amor and Summer Secrets is the first in a trilogy and the other books (Amigas and School Scandals, and Adios to All the Drama) are coming out soon! Did you always plan to write a trilogy or did the first book work it's way into three?
A: Actually, when I wrote Amor and Summer Secrets, I expected it to be a stand-alone book. I hadn’t planned on a trilogy, nor did my publisher when I first submitted it.

Amor was originally written under the title “Ay, Americana.” In it, Lilly was 17 and the events of her birthday party occurred at a nightclub. But during the submission process, my agent received a request from an editor at Kensington who was looking for a Latina book featuring a Quinceanera.

So I looked at “Ay, Americana” and thought about whether it could possibly fit this objective. Ultimately, it couldn’t hurt to try, so I spent two weeks revising the manuscript and was shocked when I loved the book so much more afterward. It added an element that I didn’t know was missing. We submitted the manuscript, re-titled as “First Class Chica,” to Kensington and it sold within days. Then, to my great surprise, Kensington said that they loved it so much they wanted to publish a three-book series to expand on the character.

Whenever I write a book, I always think about would happen next to my characters—much the same way you wonder about old friends. So when the offer came in, I already had a mental outline of what the future held for Mariana and Lilly, and I was thrilled to get the opportunity to write it.

Q: Where is your favorite place to write?
A: I live in Philadelphia, so my favorite spots to write are seasonal. When it warm, I often write on my patio and enjoy the weather. When it’s cold, I usually write at my desk overlooking the snowy patio. I also often go to local coffee shops in the winter to mix it up a bit. Writing at home can give you cabin fever.

July 10, 2008

More How to Raise Your Parents buzz

Uhmm, can you expect anything else from me?!

Seattle Public Library

Poughkeepsie Journal

June 27, 2008

School Library Journal - the review

School Library Journal is this magazine that goes out to, you guessed it, school librarians! It's basically a magazine of book reviews, recommending what they should buy. So if you get a good review, it's definitely a good thing.

They just reviewed HOW TO RAISE YOUR PARENTS in their July issue and here's what they had to say:

For Grades 7-11

This illustrated guide gives parents the upper hand, even if pretends otherwise. In turning the tables, Burningham gets readers to see things from an adult's perspective and offers advice on how to negotiate so that the two generations can happily coexist as a family. More conventional than its quirky title and tone suggest, the book provides rational advice such as avoiding lying and accepting the con-sequences when caught red-handed. Chapters also cover topics such as jobs, getting a driver's license, and cyber-life. The fun, magazine look of the book, which categorizes parents into five types (and provides questions for readers to determine which type they have) and decodes "parentspeak," will no doubt connect with teens. Burningham is clearly an adult talking ("Parents don't like ultimatums...," "If you really want your parents to hear you, you have to treat them like real people"), but she's a very hip adult who makes sense, and teens just might want to listen to her. -Sarah O'Holla, Village Community School, New York City

June 10, 2008

New blog reviews of How to Raise Your Parents

Some of my favorite blogs have reviewed How to Raise Your Parents (thanks to all you bloggers who read the book!). Here are the latest new reviews:

The Reading Zone - How to Raise Your Parents: A Teen Girl’s Survival Guide by Sarah O’Leary Burningham was a nice break from the fiction I have been reading all day. It’sa cute book with different strategies for dealing with parents...

Em's Bookshelf - Subtitled "A Teen Girl's Survival Guide", How to Raise Your Parents is filled with helpful hints and clues about how to survive your teenage years without killing your parents. It's got everything, from how to talk about curfew to...

On top of these blogs, I'm always on the lookout for new blogs to read so let me know if I should be reading yours!


 

June 04, 2008

Some of my Favorite Radio Interviews

I've done over 50 radio interviews for my book launch and a few have been really super fun. I thought I'd post them here in case you have some time on your hands and want to listen to me rambling about my book, why I like teenagers, and why parents and teens aren't as different as they might think they are.
Let me know what you think!

May 20, 2008

Behind the Scenes on Book Tour

I have settled back home after being out on the road for 2 weeks. It's great to be back home sleeping in my bed and waking up at a decent hour, but I kind of miss being out doing events and meeting people. So, I thought I would share some highlights from a few cities since things got so crazy I didn't have time to finish blogging about all the events.

SAN FRANCISCO (May 6, 2008)
I love San Francisco. It's one of those cities that has such amazing energy and a really good vibe.

Img_1894 The first stop was the book club at Capuchino High School in San Bruno, just a few minutes from the San Francisco airport. My mom and I couldn't find the actual entrance to the school (it's one of those great multi-level CA schools with tons of outdoor space) so we actually got there about 5 minutes late.

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Lucky for me, the girls were really cool. We talked for over an hour about everything from dealing with parents when it comes to getting a summer job to what it's like to write a book. The teacher who runs the book club made homemade scones and hot chocolate and the event ended up being a super fun gab session. It was definitely one of the highlights from the road.

After book club, my mom and I went back to the hotel and completely crashed. We had to wake up at 3:00am in the morning in order to catch our 6:00am flight, so we were beat. But a few hours in bed with the blackout curtains drawn, and we were good as new.

Img_1901 Next stop was ABC-TV and their local show The View from the Bay. (See that white plastic bag in my hand? That was lunch - BLTs from the diner around the corner. Yum!) I was lucky and got to do a bunch of local TV shows while I was in different cities, but this one was a highlight. The hosts were really fun and real - I could tell they really wanted to have fun with the book but also get some useful info out there.

Img_1904 We wrapped up the day with a Mother-Daughter pizza party at Towne Center Books in Pleasanton. Pleasanton had one of the cutest main streets I've ever seen...little sandwich shops, boutiques, a nail salon and of course, what main street is compleImg_1909te with a book store? Towne Center Books is the heart of the town and I met so many cool teens and their moms. And Judy made homemade brownies which definitely hit the spot after a busy day!

Next stop...hot and sunny Phoenix.

 

May 19, 2008

My interview with the Seattle Post-Intelligencer

While I was on book tour, I got to speak to a bunch of high school and junior high students in all different cities about how to deal with their parents. Let me just say, these were by far the best events I did. The teenagers had the best questions and we had really good talks. They basically became like chat sessions instead of lectures. (Which is by far how I prefer them. Who wants to just sit and listen to some random person talk for an hour?)

Img_1881_2 At one school just outside of Seattle, a reporter and photographer came with me and took pictures while I talked. I'm usually pretty calm under pressure, but seriously, having a reporter take your picture while you're speaking is so nerve-wracking! Anyway, the article turned out great - it ran last Friday in the Seattle Post-Intelligencer.

Img_1884 One quick story, I actually drove out to the event with the reporter, a super nice guy named Paul Nyhan. (He really is one of the most genuinely nice reporters I've ever met.) He wanted us to have time to talk before I actually started speaking at the school, because I wasn't going to be able to answer his questions then, you know? So, anyway, he picked me up at my hotel and we started driving. But after 3 minutes in the car, he turned to me and said, "Do you want to drive?"

I need to explain a little something here. I am an excellent driver. Really, only one accident in 13 years of having my license. But...that being said, I don't have a car. I live in New York City and we don't drive anywhere. So it's been years since I've driven a lot. I only drive when we go on vacation and even then, Grant usually drives. (I prefer to sit shotgun and rule the radio.)

So, when Paul asked me to drive I started to laugh a little. I thought he was kidding. He wasn't. He needed to take notes, he said, and couldn't do it while he was driving. And then he pulled over so we could trade spots!

I thought I might start to hyperventilate. Not only was I going to drive a reporter (who was in the process of interviewing me) but I was going to drive HIS car in a city I wasn't that familiar with. Waaaaa! I tried to keep my cool. I put my seatbelt on, adjusted the mirror and went for it. And you know what, it all turned out ok. We got to the school in one piece. But I swear, when we finally parked, it was like I could breathe again. Thank goodness I didn't wreck his car!!

May 07, 2008

What I'm Reading While on Book Tour

I've been spending a lot of time on planes over the last two weeks - which means I've been taking a lot of catnaps and reading. What, you might ask, does an author read while on book tour? The answer is this: just about everything. But here's what I've been devouring...

ChalkedupChalked Up by Jennifer Sey - I've had a chance to work with this author (for the record, she's amazing) and I love, love, love her book. I never even did gymnastics and I was riveted by the behind-the-scenes stories of semi-abusive coaching and over-zealous parents. This is a must read.

Night

The Meaning of Night by Michael Cox - this is one that I'm reading for my book club. It's a really intense mystery and I'm only half way through so I'm dying to get to the end!

Popular

How to Be Popular by Meg Cabot Oh, Meg Cabot, how do I love thee? Let me count the ways... Loving this book and I love this author. Can't say enough good things about her.

May 06, 2008

On the Road Again

It's sunny in Seattle and I feel so lucky. I lived in Bellevue growing up (the city right across the bridge from Seattle) and it's not sunny very often. I think the book tour gods are being nice to me.

Img_1859 Img_1860_2 Yesterday was a blast with 2 events in the Seattle area. The first was at Fort Lewis - an army base about 45 minutes from the airport. And it was incredible. I got to meet parents and teenagers who are sacrificing so much to help our country. There were 2 cute soldiers who had 12 year old daughters that stopped by to get books and I even had a few moms get books for their sons. (I told them to apologize for me that the cover is pink but that the info would definitely be helpful!) The base itself was amazing - basically a huge city. I actually had quite an experience getting on. My mom and I drove to the wrong entrance and the guards wouldn't let us in (of course) and then I went the wrong way trying to turn around and the guard starting hollering at us (by this time he had our IDs). Anyway, we finally got to the right entrance and met the event coordinators (Sheree and Mandy) who were so wonderful. The whole thing was a blast!

Img_1873 Next on the agenda was a Borders bookstore in Redmond. We drove straight there from the base and I was a little worried we wouldn't have a soul at the event. But I was wrong. Not only were there some cool moms and teens that I had never met before, but my fourth grade teacher showed up!Img_1871 She was one of my absolute favorite teachers growing up - I learned my times tables and most of my vocabulary from her. It was really touching to have her there. My friend Kayte Gyles and her parents were also there--they were in town running some errands and they made time to come by! It was great to see them. Then, mid-event (I usually say a few words at the beginning and then sign), all of these people from my childhood started showing up. It was unreal - old friends of my parents, old friends of mine. I have never felt so loved and so appreciative to have such amazing people in my life. It was a wonderful event. I think most of all because I realized how lucky I am to know so many incredible people. They've really made me who I am (well, the good parts anyway) and it was beyond great to have a few hours with them.

One more day in Seattle and then on to San Francisco and Phoenix!

May 03, 2008

Book Tour Buzz

I'm out on the road, in Salt Lake City right now, and I leave for Seattle early tomorrow morning. It's been a total whirlwind so far and I'm loving every second of it.

Img_1841My first tour event was in Dayton, Ohio, at Books & Co. - a famously rocking bookstore for hosting great events and selling a TON of books! I know the event coordinator, the talented Sharon Kelly Roth, and it was really fun to hang out with her for a few minutes before the event started. Once I got to the event space, I was happy to see the three people who came to hear me talk. Img_1842 (I know what you're thinking - three people? - but as a new author in a town where you don't know a soul - three is totally thrilling.) The three women were awesome and the event ended up being a girls night out style chat with everyone talking about being a teenager or having teenagers. I just wish I would've brought some refreshments and my pillow!

Img_1845Next stop - Salt Lake City - my old high school stomping ground and where my family lives now. I felt like Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz when my plane landed on Thursday morning. There really is no place like home. I didn't spend much time actually at home though. Thursday night was a great event at The King's English - a really amazing indy bookstore - one of the top in the country. Not only did I get to see old friends and meet some new ones, I also met a teen book blogger I've been emailing with - the girl behind Squeaky Books! She was so sweet to come all the way to the event and I loved meeting her. You know, that's my favorite part of the tour so far - meeting cool teenagers and parents and other writers. I feel super lucky.

Img_1843 I finished the week off with some local media (Good Things Utah on ABC-TV, The Todd & Erin Show on B98.7, KCPW's Midday Metro, and a few other hits) and a great event at the Salt Lake City library in Millcreek. (That event was super fun - I LOVE libraries and librarians. I think I might be a librarian in my next life.)

Tomorrow I head to Seattle and I'll be posting a few pics of those events later this week, along with pics from my stops in San Francisco, Phoenix, and Los Angeles. Hope to see you there!

April 30, 2008

My Book Tour Starts Today!

This morning I got up at the crack of dawn (literally the crack) to fly out to Cincinnati/Dayton for the first stop on my book tour. Check out the schedule below to see if I'm coming to your city. And if I am - you should stop by because I would LOVE to see you!

Oh, did I mention that my mom is going to come with me to a few cities? How fun is that?!

DAYTON, OH - Wednesday, April 30, 2008 @ 7:00pm
Books & Co.
For more information, call: 937-429-2169
or visit: Books & Co.

SALT LAKE CITY, UT - Thursday, May 1, 2008 @ 7:00pm
The King's English
1519 S. 1500 E.
Salt Lake City, UT 84105
For more information, call: 801-466-5151
or visit: The King's English

SALT LAKE CITY, UT - Saturday, May 3, 2008 @ 11:00am
East Millcreek Library
2266 Evergreen Ave.
Salt Lake City, UT 84109
For more information, call: 801-944-7622
or visit: Go City Kids

SEATTLE, WA - Sunday, May 4 @ 12:00pm
Ft. Lewis - Military Base
Building 5280 Pendelton Avenue
Ft. Lewis, WA 98433
(near Seattle)

REDMOND, WA - Sunday, May 4, 2008 @ 3:00pm
Borders
16549 NE 74th Street
Redmond, WA 98052
For more information, call: 425-869-1907
or visit: Borders in Redmond

SEATTLE, WA - Monday, May 5, 2008 @ 7:00pm
Third Place Books
17171 Bothell Way NE
Lake Forest Park, WA 98155
For more information, call: 206-366-3316
or visit: Third Place Books

SAN FRANCISCO / PLEASANTON, CA - Tuesday, May 6, 2008 @ 6:30pm
Towne Center Books (Mother/Daughter Pizza Party!)
555 Main Street
Pleasanton, CA 94566
For more information, call: 925-846-8826
or visit: Towne Center Books

PHOENIX, AZ - Wednesday, May 7, 2008 @ 7:00pm
Changing Hands
6428 S. McClintock Dr.
Tempe, AZ 85283
For more information, call: 480-730-1142
or visit: Changing Hands

LOS ANGELES, CA - Thursday, May 8, 2008 @ 7:00pm
Book Soup
8818 Sunset Blvd.
West Hollywood, CA 90069
For more information, call: 310-659-3684
or visit: BookSoup

GREENWICH, CT - Monday, May 12, 2008 - 2 Events
Parents Together Group Meeting @ 9:00am
For more information, visit: Greenwich Schools 

Just Books & Arcadia Coffee Company, Mother & Daughter Dinner/Book Talk @ TIME TK
28 Arcadia Road
Old Greenwich, CT 06870
For more information, call: 203-637-0707
or visit: Just Books

April 26, 2008

The Today Show!!

It was so amazing to be on the Today Show yesterday. The day started when the town car picked up me, my mom, and Grant and drove us down to Rockefeller Center. After getting settled in the greenroom (Grant was even more nervous than I was!) the producer took me down to get my makeup and hair done. (I wish I could do that every single morning. It's amazing what the hairdresser could do with my stick straight hair and it was heaven having someone do my makeup!) And then it was just a few minutes before I walked on to the set, got miked, and started talking with Ann Curry and Michele Borba.

What a whirlwind! It was really wonderful. Every minute of it. My mom took a bunch of pictures and when I figure out her camera (I swear, sometimes I think they make cameras hard to work on purpose) I'll post them. But for the time being, here's the segment...Enjoy!

April 24, 2008

Newsweek, BookPage, and SmartGirlsRock Love my book!

First things first...remember that tomorrow I'm going on the Today Show! I'll be on around 9:00am so don't forget to watch. I'll post the video tomorrow after it goes on the Today Show website. I'm so stoked.

(Don't you love the word "stoked"? I think I'm going to try and resurrect it in pop culture...)

In other news...I did this interview for Newsweek on the "Eight Top Teen Health Hazards." What do your parents think are the biggest health risks in your life? I have to admit, mine were pretty much worried about everything and even though I'm an adult now, I know my mom is really freaked out that I drive a Vespa.

Also, I just got the first official review of How to Raise Your Parents: A Teen Girl's Survival Guide, and...it's great! Sometimes, even though you really believe in what you've written and are putting out into the world, you hold your breath hoping that most other people feel the same way. (I say most because I don't think you can ever please everyone.) I was basically on the verge of passing out from lack of oxygen waiting for the blasted PDF with the BookPage review to open but once it finally did, I could breathe easy.

BookPage is a monthly magazine that goes out to more than 400,000 bookstores, libraries, and readers in general, so it definitely matters what they have to say. Actually, I think it matters what everyone has to say, in print or not, but there's something so permanent about an actual magazine, isn't there?

Check out a few lines from the review:
"Burningham reveals the most effective techniques for understanding adults, handling professional worriers (i.e. parents), maneuvering around them and coming out a winner in the independence game...She delivers straight-talk in a funny and fun-to read format...Armed with How to Raise Your Parents, teens will have the inside track on effective strategies for communicating, negotiating, and compromising their way to the freedoms and privileges they're after--skills that will come in handy whether they want their own cell phone, a new hair color or a set of car keys!"

And that's not all. I've been saving the best for last!

SmartGirlsRock.com is a website that has actual teens (smart girls, of course) review books. So, you get honest, true-to-life girls like you talking about books you want to read, and which ones you don't. Luckily, the teenagers who read mine raved about it. Check out what they said:

"This book is funny without being stupid, informative without being boring, and helpful while still being one of the best books I’ve ever read...This is something every teen needs on their bookshelf or, more likely, on the floor somewhere."

Ok, I'm done with all my crazy excitement (for today)!

April 19, 2008

CBS News talks to me about my book

Last week I went on CBS News "Up to the Minute" to talk about teen/parent relationships. (What else?)
I was on with host Meg Oliver, who is really cool and about to have her first baby. But seriously, you can't even tell. She was about to pop and when you see the segment she looks totally normal!

April 16, 2008

My Top 10 Favorite Books of All Time (for now)

Continuing on my top ten list craze (inspired by Dave Letterman, who else?)...

Being a writer and in publishing, a lot of people ask me what books I read. And the truth is, a lot. I read a ton for work and a ton for fun, so between the two I average a book a week, at least. But even though most of them are great, not all of them have changed my life.

If I had to pick my top ten books of all time (keeping in mind that this could change tomorrow if I start reading a really amazing book) I would say these:

  1. The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald - I read this for the first time when I was a junior in high school. I liked it well enough then (it was better than The Red Badge of Courage - sorry, but it's true) but every time I've read it since then, it's grown on me. Now, it's an essential part of my library. Funny story: at one point between Grant and I, we had 6 copies of the book in our apartment. We've managed to whittle it down to 2 after nearly 4 years of being married.
  2. Angus, Thongs, and Full-Frontal Snogging, the first book of Georgia Nicolson "Confessions" by Louise Rennison - I started with the eighth book in the Georgia Nicolson series (a gift from a friend) and proceeded in the next month to read all 7 others. I am a Georgia Nicolson nut! She's funny and silly (isn't that a good word to describe her?). Seriously, the kind of girl who can keep you entertained for pages just talking about mascara. Love all of these!
  3. The Time Traveler's Wife by Audrey Niffenegger. The most believable unbelievable love story in the world and the writing will take your breath away. Enough said.
  4. Liars and Saints (and A Family Daughter) both by Maile Meloy. First of all, isn't that a great author name? Maile Meloy. I have a friend with the last name Maloy and if she ever has a little girl I'm making her name her Maile. And not only is her name perfect, both of these books are stunning. I lost myself in them. They aren't sequels but both bring the same cast of characters into play. This California family will remind you so much of your own just because of the people they are.
  5. A Postcard Memoir by Lawrence Sutin. This is a totally original memoir written in short bits and inspired by random postcards. Literally brilliant. And the postcards are included so you can create your own memoirical (did I just make up a word?) pieces while you read along.
  6. Self Helpby Lorrie Moore (although my version has this cover on it and I like it better -- I feel connected to it, you know?). This is funny and disarming and really cuts to the core of what we are all trying to be. The essay called How to Become a Writer is one of the most clever pieces I've ever read and I go back to it at least once a year.
  7. The Awakening by Kate Chopin - I read this my freshman year of college and it really, truly changed my life. All the guys in my class had read it in high school (my AP English class skipped it for some reason) and they thought it was all rah-rah feminism and boring. I was so moved by the power of the writing and the fact that the main character recognizes her strengths and weaknesses in a time when women weren't supposed to have either.
  8. Speak, Memory by Vladimir Nabokov - this Russian writer was such a lingual genius that he wrote books in many languages - no outside translator necessary.This is his subtle, beautiful memoir. I got lost in the minute details of life - everything from butterflies to buildings in St. Petersburg. And when I went to St. Petersburg I got to see his pre-communist era childhood home in person -- amazing!
  9. The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion. I've never been so moved by loss and the description of recovering from it. Joan Didion is one of my writing idols and this is, I think, her best work.
  10. Ex Libris by Anne Fadiman - It's a book about books for book lovers!

April 12, 2008

I'm going on the Today Show!

Yes, it's true. Yours truly is going to appear on the Today Show (yay!!) the morning of April 25th (Mark your calendars!) to talk about How to Raise Your Parents: A Teen Girl's Survival Guide. How cool is that?! I'll be on during the 9:00am hour and if I do say so myself, watching the segment is definitely a good reason to be a little late for school that morning. You have to watch so you can tell me what you think.

In other important news, now I have to figure out what to wear! A total dilemma. I was thinking about this dress but yellow isn't a great color for me and it's a freaking fortune. Any ideas? Help me, fashion gurus!

April 07, 2008

I'm on TV!!

I had my very first ever TV appearance on Wednesday and it's up online for the world to see. New York 1 News (a local New York City channel) had me on to talk about my book and how to bridge the gap between teens and parents. They let me pick the topics, so I chose music, driving, and expressing your personal style--all pretty big deals when it comes to parent/teen relationships. I have to say, it was really fun!

The host really wanted me to have props - "think of it like you're doing a show and tell for second graders," she said - so I brought a bunch of old records to show music from your parents' generation (Rolling Stones, the Beatles, Carol King, Bob Dylan) and CDs from the current top 40 (Carrie Underwood, Jack Johnson, Alicia Keyes, Chris Brown) to show that there's stuff from all generations. My point: your parents don't need to be freaked out about your music!

One funny thing, though. Since Grant has a big record collection, (all the records I showed on camera are his) he said I should definitely use "Sticky Fingers" one of the most iconic Rolling Stones covers ever to illustrate my point. The only problem? It a total crotch shot and the producers said that just wouldn't fly with parents. (It was named the number 1 album cover of all-time by VH1.)

I see where they're coming from (uhmm, who couldn't?!) because this album cover was totally scandalous when it came out. And let's be honest, it's still a little shocking but I think parents are less scandalized by record covers than the producers thought they would be. Would your mom or dad be shocked by this?

Not to mention, the coolest part of the album is that the original one has an actual zipper instead of just a picture. Grant (a total record geek!) keeps his wrapped in plastic. So it's actually a collector's item!

April 05, 2008

My Uncle's take on my teen years...

Since my book is just out, I've been emailing everyone I know about it. (Umm, if I don't tell them about it, who will?) Anyway, my favorite uncle - Uncle Mike - sent me the funniest email after he bought it. Totally cracked me up!

Sarah,
After perusing your book have come to the conclusion that you we're a naughty girl. I'm sure you're writing from experience, just too many juicy tidbits come through. Now know why your Dad's hair turned prematurely gray.
Great book, we're very proud of you and your accomplishments, even after the tumultuous teen years.
Mike

I just had to laugh when I read it because my Dad's hair really did go gray early but I swear it's not because of me! (Although I'm not sure he thinks that...)

April 03, 2008

Do you want me to sign your book?

Since my book is out there in the world and I know a lot of you have already gotten copies, I wanted to let you know that I would LOVE to sign your copy for you! Just email me with your address and I will send you a signed bookplate that you can stick in the inside cover. I'll even personalize it (really, it's a total honor for me.)

So email me at AskSarahB@gmail.com and I'll send you one asap!  

March 31, 2008

Bookstore Shenanigans

I made the most exciting discovery this weekend - my book has landed in bookstores! You know that feeling when a book you've been dying to read is finally available? It was that times ten for me when I walked into the Barnes & Noble across from Lincoln Center and found three (yes, three!) copies of my book on the shelf in their teen section.

And I couldn't stop there. After seeing them in one store, I decided Grant and I had to go to every single bookstore within walking distance (a total of 5) to see if they had my book. And...they all did! One Barnes & Noble on the Upper East Side even had 4. The only store that didn't have it was a Borders and so, being the sneaky author I am, I ordered it in. Grant is going to go pick it up and put it on the shelf. (Hey, sometimes you have to get a little creative, you know?)

Anyway, so not only is How to Raise Your Parents available online - it's in actual bookstores too. Yay!!

March 28, 2008

You can buy my book on Amazon!

I know I've been talking about my book a lot these days but I just can't help myself. There's something new happening every day!! It's seriously so exciting - way better than waking up on Christmas morning when I was five and I knew Santa had brought me the lego set I wanted. (I was really into legos.)

And yesterday it was official - my book is for sale on Amazon!! It's shipping out to bookstores as we speak (or, well, as I write) so it should be in a bookstore near you soon. And you'd better believe I'm going to be walking around Manhattan this weekend checking every single bookstore I know.

But go online and order your copy, and if you like it, post a review or drop me an email. I'd love to hear what you think? And thanks for all your support. I couldn't do this without you guys!

P.S. If you see it in your bookstore, email me!

March 24, 2008

You MUST read these!

I just finished the complete series of Confessions of Georgia Nicholson books by Louise Rennison and I have to say--they should be required reading for everyone! Every teen, tween, 20-something, mom and grandma should read all 8 of them. And there's a 9th one coming out! (Stop in the Name of Pants) I'm Georgia Nicholson's biggest fan so you'd better believe I'll be in line at the bookstore waiting for to get this one.

I actually started with the 8th one, Luuurve is a Many Trousered Thing, (aka Love is a Many Trousered Thing) because my BFF in London sent it to me. So I got to read the original version! Although I think the Hamburger-a-go-go edition has a better cover, don't you?

Any other books like this you recommend?

March 18, 2008

Take this survey

The Young Adult Library Services Association (YALSA) is taking a survey about technology so they can get you everything you need at your school and public libraries. Here's your chance to tell them that the Internet is too slow and which games you're dying for. Take the Teen Technology Survey and speak your mind!

March 17, 2008

What's the most shocking thing you've ever done?

A few days ago, I had the first event for my book. It’s not officially out yet but the high school in Madison, CT, was having their annual “Family University Day” and they asked me to be their keynote speaker. A chance to speak to parents and teenagers? Let me think for a second. Uh, YES!

I was SO nervous. My first speech and it was in front of over 100 people. What if they didn’t laugh at my jokes? What if they didn’t buy my book? When I get nervous my stomach feels like I’ve just been on a roller coaster. Luckily, this roller coaster ended well. I talked for about 30 minutes and tons of people came up to me after to get books signed. I sold my very first book ever. It was such a high!

Before I officially gave my speech, I had lunch with some of the moms who organized the event. They were all really cool, and one of them said something that stuck with me. She said the best parenting advice she ever got was, “never act shocked by anything your teenager says.” What have you done or said that totally shocked your parents? How could you tell they were shocked? I think that if your parents act shocked by everything you’re less likely to talk to them. What do you think?

March 16, 2008

I'm in Teen Vogue!!

Really, I'm in there as an expert on mother-daughter relationships. It's the April issue and it just hit newsstands so if you don't have a subscription, you can get it at the drugstore or grocery store or bookstore (you see where I'm going with this). Anyway, not only does the magazine have some totally fab fashion, but the articles are really, really good. I am so excited to be in it. Between us, I was dying to get my hands on the real magazine so everyday last week, I went to about 5 newsstands around the Upper West Side where I live and asked if they got their new copies in that day. The guys behind the counter started to recognize me and by Thursday they would just look at me when I walked up to the counter and say, "Not yet--tomorrow. I promise." Finally, I got a copy last weekend and I devoured it cover-to-cover!!

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